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In this episode of Celebrating Small Family Businesses, we are joined by the dynamic husband-and-wife duo, Andrea and Ray Bryant. Their story is the perfect example of how one closed door can lead to a much better open one.

Andrea shares her journey from a burned-out second-grade teacher to a real estate flipper, and finally, to the owner of Staged Right LLC. You’ll hear the incredible story of how they almost bought an existing staging business, only to discover red flags (and a “mean” owner) that made them run in the opposite direction. Instead of buying a legacy of bad vibes, they bought a U-Haul and started from scratch!

Ray joins the conversation to talk about his role as the supportive spouse with a W2 job, the “Sanford and Son” days of their early inventory, and why he knew Andrea could succeed before she believed it herself.

We also dive into the nitty-gritty of scaling a family business, including how Andrea built a team so trustworthy that she was able to take a one-month vacation while the business kept humming.

In this episode, we discuss:

  • The Career Pivot: Moving from the pressure of standardized testing in schools to the creativity of home staging.
  • Due Diligence: The story of shadowing a business owner for two months and realizing you shouldn’t buy their company.
  • The “Ray” Factor: How to balance a full-time job while supporting your spouse’s new entrepreneurial venture (and doing the heavy lifting!).
  • Overcoming Imposter Syndrome: Why “I don’t know how to do that” shouldn’t stop you.
  • The “Clockwork” Moment: How Andrea successfully stepped away for a month-long vacation without the business falling apart.
  • Giving Back: How Staged Right uses their inventory to support The Joshua House, a local shelter for abused and neglected children.

Mentioned in this Episode:

  • Book Recommendation: Clockwork by Mike Michalowicz (John’s pick for business systems!)
  • Charity Spotlight: The Joshua House

Connect with Staged Right:

  • Website: https://stagedrightllc.com/
  • Social Media: https://www.facebook.com/stagedrightllc

A Note from John & Connie:

We loved Andrea’s advice at the end: “You can do more than you think you can do.” Sometimes, it just takes a supportive partner and a little push to realize your own potential. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave us a review!

00:00 Introduction to Staged Right LLC

00:38 Andrea’s Journey from Teaching to House Flipping

01:13 The Unexpected Opportunity

02:10 Starting Staged Right LLC

03:43 Challenges and Early Successes

05:31 The Importance of Staging in Real Estate

07:53 Personal Stories and Lessons Learned

13:34 Balancing Business and Personal Life

16:53 Reflecting on Career Choices

17:36 Learning About Each Other

19:19 Advice for Couples in Business

20:00 Balancing Business and Personal Life

21:04 The Joy of Staging

22:43 Charity Work and Giving Back

23:56 Building a Self-Sustaining Business

31:05 Encouragement for Aspiring Entrepreneurs

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John and Connie: Hi, and welcome to another episode of Celebrating

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Small Family Businesses where we celebrate passion in action.

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Today we are celebrating Staged Right LLC, with Andrea and Ray Bryant.

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Hi Andrea.

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Hi Ray.

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Andrea and Ray: How

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John and Connie: Welcome to our podcast!

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So we always like to, to start with like how you got here and.

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Uh, you know, I think it's, uh, from what I've learned quite a, a, a journey.

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So, but how did you get to Staged Right?

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Andrea and Ray: Well, um, I was a second grade teacher for 20 years

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and I kind of had enough of, um, teaching things I don't believe in

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and ways I don't believe in, and just.

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You know, kind of beating kids up with testing that I felt like

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we were doing to second graders.

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So, um, you know, Ray said, why don't you stop teaching and do something else?

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I said, oh, you said it, you can't take it back now.

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So I started flipping houses, and I, we did a few and they were okay.

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It was kind of like this, make some money.

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Oops.

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Lose some money.

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Oh.

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You know, just kind of a little bit of a rollercoaster like that.

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And the girl that was staging my houses when we flipped them, I was talking

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to her one day on the phone and she said, Hey, I, I'm moving to Savannah.

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I said, what are you doing with your business?

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Because I knew she had enough furniture to stage 60 houses.

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I said, whatcha doing with your business?

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She said, oh, I'm gonna sell it.

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I said, she goes, well wait a minute.

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Why don't you buy it?

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I said, me buy it.

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I don't know anything about that.

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I can teach kids how to read, but I dunno anything about that.

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I've seen your flips.

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They're beautiful.

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You can do it.

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It's not rocket science.

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I was like, Hmm.

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So I went into him and I said, um, he said, who was on the phone?

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I said, oh, the stager who stages for us?

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he, he said, what's she up to?

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I said, well, she's selling her business.

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And he said, why don't you buy it?

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I said, well, you're the second person in 10 minutes to say that.

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Maybe I need to think about it.

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So I called her back and said, could I follow you around and, you

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know, see, see what it entails?

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And she said, sure.

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So I followed around for a couple of days and I was like, oh.

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This looks like fun.

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This is a fun job.

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Okay.

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So I'm gonna buy it.

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So I followed her around for a couple of months.

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Um, we were gonna kind of end the year with my books and her books, you know,

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make it a little easier on the books.

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And so we, you know, I followed her around and I have to say she was maybe

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the meanest person I've ever met.

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I can attest to that.

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She was just, just nasty and nasty to her employees and huh?

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They couldn't wait for me to take over pretty much, right?

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So we got near the end of the year and she said, um, she just

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happened to say, oh, last week I sold $30,000 worth of furniture.

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And I said, sold furniture.

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I said, why did you sell furniture?

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She said, because it's still my business and I'll do what I want.

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I said, yikes.

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So I came home and told him, and I called my lawyer and he said, the

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lawyer's like, oh, I don't like that.

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I said, me neither, because how do I know what else she was selling behind my back?

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So I called her the next day.

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Well, it took me two hours to call her.

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I had to get up the nerve to call her because remember she's scary

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called her and she said, what?

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You don't want it anymore?

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I said, I do want it, but I can't pay the same price.

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If you know, if you're selling furniture.

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And she said, well, the price is firm.

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I said, okay.

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She goes, okay, bye.

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I was like, and he's like, oh, I bet she's gonna call you back.

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You know, you spent two months with her.

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There's no way she's gonna just let this die.

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I said, I don't know about her.

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She might just burn that furniture before she calls me back.

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And she never did.

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And I was, Hmm.

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After I licked my wounds for a minute, I said, think I can do this by myself.

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I don't think I need, you know, I think we can do it.

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We, so that's what we did.

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We started our own.

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And you know, I always used to laugh his, I pull in the yard and his

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truck looked like Sanford and Son.

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He'd be singing the Sanford and Son song to me, because every his pickup truck

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was always loaded down with furniture from here and there and everywhere.

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And that's kinda how we started it.

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It just, it was.

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It's supposed to be a little differently, but it worked out great.

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I'm, I'm thrilled with how it worked because I was gonna have to

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pay her payments for three years and then I didn't have to do that.

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I would've had instant customers, but.

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This was better.

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This was better.

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And then, uh, one of her employees called me after I didn't buy,

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and he said, what happened?

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Oh God, what happened?

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Why didn't, why didn't you buy it?

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well, I couldn't, you know, I told him the story.

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He said, well, if you ever need help on the weekends, or, you know, when I'm not

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working with her, I'm, I'm happy to help.

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So my first, the first few houses we did, Ray and I, and, and Bobby

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did the houses and, you know, the pickup truck and the U-Haul.

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um, then she found out that he was working with me and she fired him.

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So I was like, uh oh, we gotta get a lot busier because now

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I'm responsible for Bobby.

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So that's what happened.

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So it lit a little fire under us, and that's how it, how it all happened.

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John and Connie: So did when she didn't sell it to you, did she also not move

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out of the area like she was planning?

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Andrea and Ray: She'd already bought a house in Savannah, so

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she was already planning to move.

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And I've heard from other stagers that they, she asked them if they wanted

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to buy things, but the problem was her furniture wasn't in great shape.

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It was rough.

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I mean it, and so they were like, they didn't want it either.

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And then after I didn't buy it, people had said, you know,

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she has a terrible reputation.

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I'm glad you didn't buy her business, because I would've been

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digging myself out of a hole.

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I'm glad to have had zero reputation rather than a negative one.

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John and Connie: So you dodged a bullet there.

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Andrea and Ray: to.

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John and Connie: Wow, that's cool.

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So you started as a, basically as a customer of staging the,

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the concept of staging right?

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When you were flipping houses.

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So you learned the value of it from the other side

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Andrea and Ray: Absolutely.

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It makes a humongous

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difference.

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John and Connie: Yeah.

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And then I would think that would, did that make it easier to sell?

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Andrea and Ray: What's that?

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John and Connie: Did that make it easier to sell to your customers when

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you, you could say, look, I've been flipping houses and staging made all the

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difference, or whatever your story was.

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Andrea and Ray: Absolutely, because my, the main customers of our business is

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they're flippers and real estate agents.

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Um, flippers.

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Flippers are a hard sell because they, they are pinching every single penny.

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I understand that.

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And, and then I think when they call me and they understand,

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oh, she's a flipper too.

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She, she gets me.

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I think that's really helpful, and I think I was in the right

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place at the right time going.

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I, I'd been, he, we'd both been going to meetings, real estate meetings and

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real estate investor meetings and the, you know, a lot of the flippers already

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knew they knew us, so they weren't Then when I said, Hey, I'm doing this, oh,

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at first they'd say, oh, that's Foo foo.

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What does putting some pillows in a couch in a house do?

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Well, we, I said, you know what?

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A couple of the.

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Big players.

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I said, lemme just do one.

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Lemme do one for it really cheap.

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Let's see what happens.

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So we did it, and I remember one of them, the one, one guy had a

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little condo over in Madeira Beach.

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Couldn't sell it, couldn't sell it.

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Ray and I staged it by ourselves.

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I don't think Bobby was available.

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Then we staged it by ourselves.

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That was a chore.

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The, the elevator upstairs could, the elevator couldn't fit the couch.

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So three floors.

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The good thing, I got muscles here, but three floors, the two of us lugging

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couches, lugging everything up, that one sold for $10,000 over asking as soon as

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we took new pictures and got it staged.

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So that guy at every meeting was yelling from the rooftops, okay

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guys, I said, this is foo foo.

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I didn't believe in it either.

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I'm a believer now, so that was helpful to have some of the big

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dogs, you know, yelling from the rooftops because a lot of,

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John and Connie: Yes.

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Andrea and Ray: of flippers don't believe in it.

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Well, they do now because it's, it's this time, this a time of real estate is tough.

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It's hard to sell houses right now, so you have to pull out all your bag

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of tricks, staging's one of them.

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John and Connie: Mm-hmm.

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Well, good job.

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Yeah.

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I mean, gosh, we could talk about the, the, the psychology of it is huge, and

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both from the, the seller's point of view and from the buyer's point of view.

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Right.

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We used to watch all those, uh, shows on HGTV, you know, and, and

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you'd see somebody walk into a house and look around and say, oh, and,

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and we saw this in real life too.

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I, I could never buy this house.

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I don't like this color.

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It's like, wait, what?

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It's a, it's a, you repaint, it's it's a room.

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Andrea and Ray: this.

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John and Connie: Yeah.

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But it, it just, that really impressed upon me how much people, they,

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they lock into a first impression.

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And so that first impression is, is pretty powerful and, and you

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need to make it where they can imagine themself in your space.

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That was the, the, the big thing I, I learned, we learned about decluttering

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from, again, life experience.

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His, his mother is selling her own house, selling woman had

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a 10,000 square foot house.

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Oh my God.

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It was packed to the gills.

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Andrea and Ray: Oh boy, my gosh, that's a

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John and Connie: Yeah, she, she was a collector.

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She, yeah, she was a collector and she was really proud of

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her stuff, and, and that's,

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Andrea and Ray: got

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John and Connie: know, yes, she was.

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I called her the keeper of the dead people stuff.

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Andrea and Ray: Well, that's the problem.

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Once the people die who

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John and Connie: Yeah.

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Andrea and Ray: keeps their photo albums and their yearbooks, you feel bad

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throwin' it away, but, but guess what?

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You didn't feel that bad, did you?

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John and Connie: Yeah, no, I, you know, it was quite, uh, it was quite liberating,

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but when you're, when you're buying it, looking at a house to try to decide if

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you want to buy it, you, you know, you see a bunch of, you know, a wall of

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family photos of somebody else's family.

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It's, that doesn't work.

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It's off-putting.

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Right?

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Yeah.

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Andrea and Ray: Exactly.

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You have to be able to picture your own family in there.

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Even we tell people, 'cause we also do a consultation that we'll

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go in when somebody's staying in the house, not just a vacant.

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A house that we do all the furniture, but when people are staying in the house

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and going to live there during the sales process, we'll go in and tell them all the

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things they can do to get more money for their house and you know, sell it faster.

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And even when people have a big S on the wall for Smith or

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whatever, like we don't want them thinking of the Smiths living here.

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We want them thinking of the Joneses living here.

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So take all of that down and, and

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John and Connie: Yep.

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Andrea and Ray: hard for people to understand that like, oh, people can

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John and Connie: Mm-hmm.

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Andrea and Ray: that.

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John and Connie: No, they can't.

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Andrea and Ray: time.

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John and Connie: No.

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People have a hard time seeing past this right here.

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That's right.

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Well, and even his mother on the second house that we sold for them, same thing.

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I finally had to get the realtor in there going, you gotta save me here

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because I can't get her to do this.

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And she finally looked at her and said, look, it's not gonna sell

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unless you do this, this, and this.

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Andrea and Ray: And that's

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John and Connie: I had the U-Haul truck.

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Andrea and Ray: the bad guy.

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Yeah, we could

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John and Connie: Yeah.

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Andrea and Ray: guy for you.

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Let us

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John and Connie: Yep.

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Mm-hmm.

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Andrea and Ray: the things like that.

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They listen to

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John and Connie: Yep.

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Andrea and Ray: says stager, so they think that I know more about it than a

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realtor, whatever gets them to do it and

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John and Connie: Doesn't matter,

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Andrea and Ray: this.

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John and Connie: right?

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Andrea and Ray: Yeah.

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John and Connie: I didn't care.

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Andrea and Ray: when they do it once, say they're happy.

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John and Connie: Right.

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I didn't care how it happened because it, it needed to happen and because we

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did that one so well, the people that were buying it bought all the furniture.

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Andrea and Ray: Oh really?

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John and Connie: Mm-hmm.

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Andrea and Ray: That

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John and Connie: Yeah.

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Andrea and Ray: bunch of problems, didn't it?

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John and Connie: It did it.

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I mean, they kept everything in the kitchen and air.

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It was like, whoa, I like this.

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Because they were moving in with us, so we, we had, so it was good.

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Yeah.

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Andrea and Ray: That was win, win, win.

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John and Connie: Yeah.

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And an extra $10,000 in their pocket.

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Andrea and Ray: Triple, quadruple win.

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John and Connie: Exactly.

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Exactly.

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So, so this is gonna be one of those questions that's not on our standard

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list, but Ray, you very quickly said to Andrea, why don't you buy it?

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What did you know about her that made that, you know, come

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outta your mouth so quickly?

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Andrea and Ray: Well, I mean, she's, she's a super hard worker.

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She's always been a really hard worker.

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Um, and when she taught, um, her and her girlfriends, the teachers

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would come around and that they just complained all the time.

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It was always complaints about the kids and the teachers and the Yeah, they just

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all seemed like, all, but they all seemed like hated in their own way and, um.

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So when we were gonna buy her business, the money we were gonna put down for

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that, um, you know, then after being with her for, I was only with her for

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a day and I told her, I said, I can't, I just can't be around her the way she

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talks to me and I'm, we're trying to buy her business and the way she was

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talking to her employees, I said, I just can't, I just can't be around her.

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So I told her for, for the money we were gonna pay down, we could have bought

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our own furniture and done it ourself.

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So, um, so that's why I was like, why, why are we doing this?

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And, you know, to stroke her a check for three years, that she

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was gonna have her hands in it, um, and just be the way she was.

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I just, it wasn't the route I wanted to go, and I don't, she didn't either.

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So, um, so it really worked out well, you know, um, doing it that way.

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I think teaching, you know, you, no matter how hard you work, you're making

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the same money, so that gets a little, a little annoying after a while.

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Yeah.

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He's like, I'm, I'm working so hard and not making any more money.

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Right.

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Your own business is nice because you, the harder you

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John and Connie: Yeah.

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Andrea and Ray: the more money you make.

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It's,

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John and Connie: Right.

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Andrea and Ray: yeah.

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And she's much

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John and Connie: But financing it or buying it from.

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So buying it from that other person would've, would that have been sort

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of like staying on and teaching?

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Sure.

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Andrea and Ray: Well, I, I, I don't, well, she, I don't think she would've

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stayed on teaching, but I think it just would've, um, it would've

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killed us to, to write her a check.

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Just knowing, um, that for three years.

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She was always gonna be kind of meddling in the business.

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so, um, just to, just to do that, I'm like, let's just do it

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ourselves and, and cut her out.

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John and Connie: So how do you two work together?

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What's the division of power, so to speak?

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Andrea and Ray: So I still have a W2 job.

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Um, so I still, uh, I still insurance.

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We need insurance somewhere.

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Yeah.

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I've been with my company

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25 years, so, um, you know, I'm, I'm kind of established and not going anywhere.

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Um, for now.

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Um.

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Uh, but I, you know, on the weekends or at nights, I mean, a lot of times after work,

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she'll just, the other night she needed to go do something at a house and her and

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I ran and, you know, move some furniture.

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Did, did a couple things.

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So I help her on the weekends and, um, other ways I can, um, and around the

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house and, you know, things like that.

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John and Connie: So you listen real well.

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Andrea and Ray: Yeah, try.

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I

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John and Connie: Good job.

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Andrea and Ray: ruler and hits me all the hand, right?

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The ruler.

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I gotta get that teacher ruler out.

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John and Connie: There you go.

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So did you have, uh, kids still at home, uh, during the, when you started,

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you know, made the transition from teaching into this business or, or from

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Andrea and Ray: I

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John and Connie: flipping into this?

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Andrea and Ray: I have a 17-year-old.

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He has a 28-year-old, and so he's out and be adulting, but yeah, my

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17 year old's still here, so, yeah, and it was an interesting time.

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It was COVID, it was, you know, starting a business during COVID is a little wacky.

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John and Connie: Wow.

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Andrea and Ray: but it all, it all worked out.

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It all fell into place the way it was supposed to.

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John and Connie: Nice.

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So what have you learned that you wish you had learned before you started this?

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Andrea and Ray: I wish I would've done this a long time ago.

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John and Connie: Mm-hmm.

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Andrea and Ray: I, I didn't, it's funny when I told my dad I was

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gonna be a teacher, he didn't talk to me for three months.

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He was so mad.

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He is like, oh my God.

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You are working.

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My dad has his own business.

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My mom has her own business.

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Like this is not what we do.

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I'm from Pennsylvania.

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I don't think teachers have a great reputation.

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They're always striking.

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They're always this, they're always that.

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And they kind of have that feeling of them.

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And I just thought he knew, oh God, so you're gonna be stuck.

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You're gonna start making 25,000 a year.

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And I was making 50,000 at the end of 20 years of teaching after

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20 years of experience, 50,000.

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I knew he knew I could do more than that.

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Um, and and is it a wonderful profession?

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Absolutely.

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Do I have really good, warm, fuzzy feelings from it.

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Um, he always tells a story when I, we go out to eat and the server will be.

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I think you were my second grade teacher and now they're grown up and

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it's, that's lovely, lovely to stay

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John and Connie: Hmm.

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Andrea and Ray: that I did teach in.

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So I do have wonderful feelings about it, but I just aren't, it just, it,

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it got it, you know, it kind of has gotten not the same as it used to be.

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And, um, we used to be able to do, when Gasparilla time came, we would

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do make Pirate Punch and we'd turn it into a math lesson and do fractions

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and all of that kind of went away.

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It, it's, uh, if we catch you doing fun Friday, don't do Oh.

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God, it's the last 45 minutes on a Friday.

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They're seven.

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They're seven.

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Like if they, we, I felt like our job as second grade little kid

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teachers, we make them love learning.

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Then

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John and Connie: Mm-hmm.

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Andrea and Ray: and it gets harder, they already have the love of learning.

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If are beating them up in kindergarten, first grade, and second grade, guess what?

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They're never gonna love it.

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John and Connie: Oh.

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Andrea and Ray: I felt like.

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I was like, I'm part of the problem.

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So yeah.

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So I feel like I, that's what I learned.

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I really wish I would've done it earlier.

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I wish I would've had the nerve.

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I had girlfriends that were not in teaching and, and I'd complain

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about it he said, they're like, why don't you do something else?

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I go, there's nothing else I can do.

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I am a teacher inside of me.

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I am a teacher and that's all I can do.

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And they're like, no, you can't.

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You can be a corporate trainer.

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You can be.

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I was like, no, I can't do any of that.

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Like that's, other people can do that, but not me.

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I'm a teacher and that's it.

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So that's the big lesson.

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I wish I would've more confidence in myself, um, to, to branch out and do it.

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So, but I

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John and Connie: Well, at the right time.

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At the right place.

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Andrea and Ray: Yeah.

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John and Connie: That's That's right.

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Andrea and Ray: Yep.

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John and Connie: Another question we'd like to ask is, so what's something

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you've learned about the other person?

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You guys have been together for a while, you've known each other a long time.

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What's something you've learned about each other from the staging business working

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together that you didn't know before?

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Andrea and Ray: Well, for me, I, I always knew she was a hard worker.

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Um, but since she's got her own business, I mean, she is

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like really a gritty worker.

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Um, and I tell people, I mean, she, she gets out there, she'll lift couches.

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She doesn't just fluff pillows.

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She's in there at night, uh, giving bids.

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And I mean, she really is a hard worker.

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Um, I really haven't seen a, another female like that work as hard as she does.

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Aw, thanks.

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She really is.

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Um, I come from a long line of coal miners in Pennsylvania.

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Like my, everybody was a coal miner.

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They're, they're hard workers and she does correct me when I don't spell things.

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And that's one of the things she liked about when we first got together.

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When I was texting her.

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She goes, your spelling is one point.

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I know he was a good speller.

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I like that.

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Yeah.

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John and Connie: Sometimes it's those little things, isn't it?

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Andrea and Ray: Right.

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I didn't have to get my red marker out and circle

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anything.

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Uh, what I

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learned about him, let's see.

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So I really appreciate how much he'll help me and like, you know,

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anytime things come and he'll help me.

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You know, like the other night when we, didn't feel like after

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work going to a house and moving things around, but he still did it.

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So I'm, I'm very appreciative of, of how much he'll chip in, um, when I

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need him to, so it's, it's awesome.

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Very giving and, and considerate of me and I appreciate that.

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John and Connie: Cool.

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What would you tell a a another couple that was either considering

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going into business together or already in business together?

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What advice would you give them about the, uh, you know, working together, balancing

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the family and, and the business?

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Andrea and Ray: It's hard, hard to balance.

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It, it, it's, I mean, for her

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John and Connie: Mm-hmm.

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Andrea and Ray: her son's younger.

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Mine's older.

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I mean, but I, you know, I love Chase, like he's my own.

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Um, um.

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And, and we work well together with that.

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But, um, it's, uh, you just have to, you just have to work together

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and have a very good balance.

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You like balance, you know, trying to, it's, it's hard to have a

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balance having your own business.

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It's, it's

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John and Connie: Hmm.

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Andrea and Ray: I'm kind of, my plan isn't to do this forever.

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It's to go balls to the wall for like as long a few years and then sell it.

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I'm not planning to work like this forever.

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I kind of just, I feel like I have catching up to do since I

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didn't make a lot of money so I can catch up, sell the business,

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and start doing some other things.

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So I. And do something you love.

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I mean, like I said, you know, the, the house flipping was, was fun times.

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'cause we were like, oh, we make good money, then we lose money.

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But doing the staging for her, um, she loves it.

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I'll try to throw my 2 cents.

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Like, what about this picture?

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She's like, no, it doesn't match.

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Looks good.

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I mean, I, I got actually one thing here at the house that's like, it's

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my flavor and everything else is hers.

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So I'm like, whatever, whatever, whatever you want.

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But you know, just a couple that, you know, just find something

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you like to do, uh, and do it.

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And work hard at it, it does make our lives a lot easier when I'm happy.

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I was pretty grum grumpy with teaching.

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Pretty grumpy.

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So, um, yeah, it, this is,

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John and Connie: And exhausted.

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Andrea and Ray: Exhausting.

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Yes.

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I mean, you know, I get to go to Home Goods and shop and, and it's a write off.

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John and Connie: There you go.

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Andrea and Ray: yeah, it's fun.

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This is definitely a fun profession.

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And, and it's funny because every woman, he always says that every time

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we go to yard sales, because I'm a big yard sailor, thrift shopper, all that.

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Um, every woman I tell, tell what I do like, oh, that sounds

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like the most fun job ever.

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John and Connie: yeah.

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Andrea and Ray: They really, if I had a quarter for every time, oh yeah,

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I'd be retired by now, because it really, it, and it's, it's a blast.

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Like, you go in and you help people get their houses sold faster, they're happy

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John and Connie: Hmm.

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Andrea and Ray: you know, making more money on their house.

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And, and it's great.

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I, I love it.

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John and Connie: Well, and you also not just do it for sales purposes.

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Correct.

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You also help, like if somebody has been in their house a while and can't seem to

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get what it is, their vision out of their head into their room, you help with that.

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Correct.

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Andrea and Ray: Yes.

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That's kind of a new thing that came from lots of realtors would, when

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we'd go in and do those walk and talks and tell people what to do.

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The realtors, a couple of realtors afterwards would say, um, I'm not

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moving outta my house, but can you come over and do that for my house?

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And I'm not even leaving.

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I'm like.

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Yeah, I guess I could.

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So we, and I have other stagers that do it too, and so they, yeah,

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everybody's loves that too, so I'm kind of starting to spread the word about

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that, that it's a fairly new service.

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But yeah, people sometimes just have a hard time.

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They just, well, staging, they can't figure out, like if it's a blank

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John and Connie: Mm-hmm.

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Andrea and Ray: cannot do it themselves.

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They just don't have the imagination to figure out

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John and Connie: Mm-hmm.

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Andrea and Ray: to put it.

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They're good at other stuff.

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Let handle this.

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Just tell you what to do.

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She also does, uh, she probably won't tell you, she does, uh,

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some work with some charities.

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Um, like the Joshua House.

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She gave some furniture and, and

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John and Connie: Great.

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Andrea and Ray: of that, the woman's shelter.

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So, um, which is, I think that's really dear and dear to her heart.

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Do some charity work.

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Yeah, that makes me happy to do that.

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Yeah, because

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John and Connie: Sure.

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Sure.

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Andrea and Ray: you know what Joshua House is.

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It's a children's home in Lutz.

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That

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John and Connie: Yep.

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Andrea and Ray: You know, the, the worst of the worst has happened to these kids.

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They've been taken out of their homes for a million different horrible reasons.

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And so when I was teaching in Lutz, the kids that went to Joshua

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House would come to our classrooms.

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So, you know, they'd leave with a garbage bag full of their stuff,

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and that's how they would get there.

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I really always felt good about helping those kids.

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And then now I'm like, oh, now I can still help them just in a different way, bring

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them dressers and beds and, and whatever.

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So, um, that really makes me happy to be able to help them in some way

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rather than just decorate houses, but make their lives, um, a little happier.

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Because they've never probably had furniture that matched or

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had maybe not even a comfy bed.

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So now they do.

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John and Connie: No.

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And their own space.

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Andrea and Ray: Yeah.

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John and Connie: Yeah.

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That's awesome.

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And I, but I, I also wanna bring up something that you said, uh, on the

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business side of things recently.

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I, I heard you at a meeting that we both attended where you introduced what

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you do, and you were proud, rightfully so, that, you had just this year, this

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summer, been able to take a month vacation away from the business, out of state,

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and the business ran fine without you.

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And, and first of all, I wanna celebrate that and salute that.

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That's huge.

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There's an author, in case you or our listeners don't know.

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There's an author named Mike Michalowicz, who wrote a book called Clockwork.

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And it's one of a series of six books that he's written about

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in entrepreneurship and, and in Clockwork, one of the things that he

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gets business owners set up to do is they put it on the calendar

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plan for that four or six week vacation and then make it happen.

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It may take a year, it may take 18 months, but, but put it on the

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calendar and then that's the goal.

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And you mentioned selling your business.

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The reason I'm bringing this up, 'cause you know, one of the things that, you

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know, I hear business brokers talk about, I've, I've read books about it.

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It's if you wanna sell a business, it's gotta be able to run without you.

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If you are the business, you can't sell it.

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Right.

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'cause you can't sell yourself and leave.

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Andrea and Ray: Yep.

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Right.

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John and Connie: Yeah.

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If you're the keeper.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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You become the bottleneck.

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So being able to do what you did, I mean, that's like a huge step

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towards building that; showing that that business can, can run,

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Is saleable.

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That you've, you've set up systems and so forth.

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So, uh, is, is there anything that you would share about how, how you made that

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happen that others could learn from?

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Andrea and Ray: Sure.

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Um, I am definitely still working on those systems.

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I didn't go and never get a call.

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I, but I definitely could go on a hike and I didn't have to worry

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that things were falling apart.

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So, I have been working really hard to get things in place.

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Now, do I have an incredible team?

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Oh my God, absolutely.

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Bobby that I stole is still with me, you know, almost five years later and

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he tells me he is not going anywhere until, you know, they're putting them

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in the ground, is what he tells me.

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And he's 62, so he's not super young, but he is still, he, he loves it.

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We have a great time.

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He's a graduate too, for sure.

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Yeah.

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Um, so yeah, I, I definitely had to get a lot of things in place.

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I had to that, that's it.

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The number one thing was that great crew that I could depend on you know.

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And I don't really stage myself much anymore.

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The crew goes every day.

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I send them the list, take this furniture outta this house, put it in

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here, and I don't even really check to make sure that that dining room

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table will fit in the next house.

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My crew looks at the house they're taking it out of.

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They make sure everything's good.

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Then they make sure that the, you know, if they have to stop at the warehouse

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and get a smaller table or a bigger table or whatever, they handle all that.

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I don't have to micromanage them.

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I don't have to do any of that.

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They're real live adults that handle it, and it's absolutely wonderful.

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Um, I definitely wanna get a lot better at automating things.

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Uh, you know, I've kind of.

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Listen to podcasts and things like that, that say to, you know, get a, a answering

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service that'll answer the calls.

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I don't think that's the best idea for me because I feel like when a new flipper

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calls me and I, they tell me this is their first flip and they found me on Google,

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I'm like your first flip, good for you.

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I'm so excited.

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Like I make a big deal outta it because I know it's a big deal.

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John and Connie: It is

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Andrea and Ray: an answering service is gonna care about that.

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John and Connie: no.

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Andrea and Ray: then I tell them, Hey, do you know about some of

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the investor meetings in town?

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They're like, no, I haven't gone to any of those.

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I was like, well, I'm gonna send you a list.

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I have a list of investor meetings I send to them.

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So I feel like that kind of stuff, I feel like I just need to answer the phone.

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I don't think I can farm that one out.

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which is fine with me because I like that.

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I like talking to.

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You know, the realtors, I, I like the whole real estate,

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wild, wild west of real estate.

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It's a crazy world and I like it.

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So, um, yeah, so I, I, I've gotten some things in place.

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I'm still, well, every business is a work in progress, right?

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That we're all, we're all trying to get the right systems in place.

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So I'm, I'm now expanding and doing more of those walk and talks.

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I'm kind of thinking about expanding it a lot, like Sarasota,

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Orlando kind of get that.

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So I definitely need to get things in place to have that, because I

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can't answer every call for that one.

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So, yeah, so I'm, I'm, a work in progress

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John and Connie: All right.

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It sounds it, it

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Andrea and Ray: big

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John and Connie: sounds like the big piece of that was you trained

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people so that you could trust them.

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Andrea and Ray: Yeah.

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John and Connie: I mean, you must have hired trustworthy people, first of all.

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Or figured out a way to, you know, manage that: who stays and who goes.

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But then you're trusting them, you're turning it over to

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them and letting them do it.

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So it's not, you're not a micromanager.

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Micromanager.

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Andrea and Ray: Nope.

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Right.

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I I'm definitely not.

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They handle

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John and Connie: had a lot of those in our lives.

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Andrea and Ray: They're trying to control every single little thing that's hard.

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That,

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John and Connie: It is hard.

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Andrea and Ray: fun for anybody, not fun

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John and Connie: No,

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Andrea and Ray: not fun for the

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John and Connie: no,

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Andrea and Ray: fun for anybody.

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John and Connie: no.

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So that was never a challenge for you to, to overcome that, that

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tendency to, to, it's my business.

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I need to have my hand on everything.

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Andrea and Ray: A little bit at the beginning when I was stewing

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all the staging, it was two movers and me, two movers and me.

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Um, and then, you know, I'm a big universe believer and it, I think at

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the exact right time a girl came to me that I was actually buying something

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from her on Facebook marketplace.

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I, when we were going back and forth and she told me where she lives, I was like,

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God, that's like a half an hour away.

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I said, do you ever come over by the outlet mall?

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I live right there.

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She goes, oh yeah, my son lives around the corner.

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I said, can I pay you $10 extra and you bring it to my house?

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She goes, yeah, sure.

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So I had, I, I went to the door, got it.

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And I had my shirt on and she said, are you a stager?

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I said, yeah.

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She goes, I just retired and I would love, do you ever need any help?

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And she's been with me now for three years.

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so you just never know where the exact right

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John and Connie: Exactly.

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Andrea and Ray: the universe is gonna bring them to you

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at exactly the right time.

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And

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John and Connie: Mm-hmm.

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Andrea and Ray: is fantastic.

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I am, oh God.

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So, so lucky to have the people that I have.

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yeah, I, I, the hiring, I don't, didn't even seek out the people.

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They kind of came to me like, like magic, but

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John and Connie: because you are open and you were, and you're

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willing to work with people.

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'cause a lot of people, they wanna be the boss instead of

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it being a, A collaborative.

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Yeah.

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Andrea and Ray: yeah, no, I'm good with not.

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They, they are so wonderful.

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I don't need I, feel like I am kind of controlling.

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John and Connie: that also special way.

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Andrea and Ray: you see, I didn't say a word.

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John and Connie: Well done, Ray.

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See, right there is a trick, right?

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There is a secret observe if somebody's listening to this on audio.

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Andrea and Ray: They've proven that they can do it and I don't need to be there

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John and Connie: Exactly

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Andrea and Ray: So

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John and Connie: right.

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Andrea and Ray: know, probably a little bit of me and a little bit of them.

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We, we all just, we all just really click very, very

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John and Connie: Right.

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Andrea and Ray: It's a great crew.

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John and Connie: Good.

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Good job.

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Andrea and Ray: Thanks.

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John and Connie: job.

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Is there anything you, you would like to pass on to somebody that's

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either considering being a stager or just having their own business?

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S

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Andrea and Ray: Um, I would say you can do more than you think you can do.

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I think that was my big thing was, darn it, why did I not think I could do this?

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And I could, and so.

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John and Connie: Mm-hmm.

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Andrea and Ray: Yeah, and you get, I think your over your lifespan,

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you're taught to be a good worker, pay taxes and they don't really teach

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you to kind of be an entrepreneur.

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So, um, I think

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John and Connie: No,

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Andrea and Ray: in her, she had it, um, and just the opportunity

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arose and then she just took it by the horns and ran with it.

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My dad knew I had it, but.

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I didn't know I had it, so

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And luckily, I feel like my son has it too.

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He's, he's working on buying laptops.

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He fixes 'em up and flips 'em and flips 'em, and I'm like, right, he's gonna be,

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John and Connie: Fabulous.

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Andrea and Ray: footsteps.

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I'm really excited about that too.

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Yeah, I

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John and Connie: Good job.

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Andrea and Ray: in his eye, I guess.

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Really excited about it.

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John and Connie: Oh, that's wonderful.

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Good job.

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Something else to celebrate.

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Awesome.

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Well thank you so much.

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Yes.

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Thank you for spending this time with us.

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This has been great.

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And uh, we.

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We will make sure that we put, you know, contact information in our show notes for,

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you know, how to reach you if somebody's local or, you know, if I, I don't know,

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you could wind up going into consulting if somebody called you from outta state

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and said, Hey, I need some help with this.

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Andrea and Ray: If I have to fly there and help them, I'll do it.

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John and Connie: Yeah.

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You know,

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and, and I could go along with you and carry your bags.

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Andrea and Ray: I might need help.

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I might need

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John and Connie: Here we go.

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Andrea and Ray: Okay,

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John and Connie: right.

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Glad we got that settled.

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That's right.

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Thank you so much.

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Thanks.

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We appreciate it.

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